How to bring up Boys and Girls

Parents play a primary role in bringing up their children. Now days bringing up children has become a challenge due to genetic advancements, westernization, too much of independency and negligence of employed parents. Especially teens are getting spoiled due to influence of media and friends. In status Male children and Female children are equal. But there are few differences in bringing up both male and female children. This is because, a boy should not resemble girlish, and a girl should not resemble a tomboy.

HOW TO BRING UP BOYS:

 Watch the movement of your child all the time.
 Let your child to cultivate freedom of speech.
 Bring up your boy with patriotism, love and affection.
 Teach him to respect elders.
 Teach him morals and good manners.
 Give him good education.
 Do not purchase toy guns and other toy weapons. They can show influence of violence in their later life.

 Boys are rough and arrogant by nature. They always keep wandering. So keep on eye on your boys every moment with their pals.

 Let your child to know the value of education, money and time.
 Teach him how hard is to earn money for the family.
 Do not let your boy to watch explicit programmes in Television. This is because kids usually adopt the methods that they grasp from the TV programmes.

 Encourage your boy to wear good and sensible dress that which preserves the tradition and culture of the nation.

 If your boy attains the age of marriage, teach him the responsibilities of husband as the head of the family.

 Teach him the importance of being responsible, bold and wise, which are ornaments of a male.

HOW TO BRING UP GIRLS

 Watch the movement of your child all the time.
 Let your child to cultivate freedom of speech.
 Bring up your child with patriotism, love and affection.
 Teach him to respect elders.
 Purchase the toy dinner set and other related toys for her.
 Let your child to know the value of education, money and time.
 Teach her morals and good manners.
 Teach her submissiveness, the greatest jewelry for a girl. It can help her in making home after marriage.

 Give her good education.
 Encourage your girl to wear traditional dress that which preserves the tradition and culture of the nation.

 Do not let your girl to watch explicit programmes in Television. This is because kids usually adopt the methods that they grasp from the TV programs.

 Discourage your girl from cultivating tom boyishness and boisterousness, as they are the qualities, which ruins a girl’s life.

 Teach her the importance of being a homemaker when she attains the age of marriage.

So parents, be ware in bringing up your children. Try to spend most of the time with your children. It is impossible to concentrate on children if both father and mother goes for job. Mothers has to give up the outside job and concentrate on home and children if the income earn by Fathers is sufficient. Never employ a care taker for your children under any circumstance. If so, your children may not develop love and affection on you and there is chance of going off the track and may ruin the status, name and fame of the family. It is the only Mothers who will have more interaction with children than Fathers. So if Father, as a bread earner, concentrates outside of the house, the Mother, as a homemaker, has to concentrate inside of the house. It balances the harmony of the family.

But at the same time please do not show any gender discrimination between male children and female children. Each of them has unique roles to play in their future married life.